I was talking with a friend of mine and he said what this world needs are some real men. Men who will lead their homes. Men who will do their part to build the home. Men who will follow God, honor Him, and take their family to church. He then went on to quote Mark 3:28 “No man can enter into a strong man’s house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strong man; and then he will spoil his house.”
When he said those words I couldn’t help but think of the old slogan for Toys R Us, I don’t want to grow up, I want to be a Toys R Us kid. It saddens me to think of how many are content to live their lives as a manchild. Playing video games and living for sports, bars, and leisure activities only. We have ripped out the study and turned it into the man cave. Inside those walls are the toys and desires of the heart.
Maybe some have been able to practically balance life and career but far too often there is nothing there about God. He has been left out of the equation. This has lead to more and more people leaving church because the man of the house is busy being a child than a leader leading his family in paths of righteousness.
Our churches are hurting because attendance is down. The ball parks don’t seem to have that kind of trouble. Video games fly off the shelves whereas Bibles need to be dusted off. Families are being torn apart if not dissolved before truly forming because he has to do his “thing”. Even advertisements are trending in this way, showing a mother and her kids but no father in the picture.
Why? Because the strong man has been bound. It didn’t require ropes or chains to do it. No, all it needed to bind him was his will to be focused on himself. Such weakness has allowed society to marginalize the dad in the family unit. To make fun of dad at practically every turn in sitcoms. To make women think they don’t need no man and boys to grow up thinking they don’t need to be that kind of man.
Where have all of the good men gone? They are bound up. Some think that they have to prove that they are the man by hurting others in some way. While others just don’t want to get involved, not my circus not my monkey’s. However, it is our monkeys because we have let the men be bound up by the cares of this world instead of letting God set us free. We have undermined godly principles in order to just get what we want.
It is like the kite. It thinks the string is holding it back, but in actuality the string sets it free. No matter how physically strong one is, we need God and His statutes in our lives to be truly strong. Without them, we are cut lose and will sooner or later crash and burn. Satan will destroy all that we held dear because we bound ourselves with the cares of this life.